Self-proclaimed president of single mothers Akothee has warned women against entertaining their ex-lovers.
The mother of five while talking about breakups and what women go through in the hands of their ex-partners advised women to avoid engaging in any sexual activities with their ex-lovers.
She says once it over it over, no turning back.
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In a lengthy post that has left single women applauding her, she wrote,
I know it hurts, give it time. Women take their children with them after a break up because of the pain they incubated for years.
Once they get courage and stand on their feet without you in their lives they become wild and venomous, bitter and cautious.
They don’t trust what you can do next! You already betrayed your commitment, nothing can make it better at this point! She is still collecting herself and needs no distraction, leave her alone.
When you break up with your woman, follow up with your children the moment it happens send gifts food, pay school fees.
It’s not time for freedom for you, to post on social media how good you are doing after she left! How you can pick the next chick because you are hot!
Definitely, you are hot because you don’t carry pregnancy and has no idea of how labour pain feels children did not break up with you, you broke up with their mother, your sexual urge got finished but love never dies you can’t love your children and hate their mother its your sex life moment that got boring.
Men break down in clubs and cry after drinking alcohol, that’s when they will open up and tell you “my wife left me and she left with my children , this kind of men hurt deep inside, and will make so many mistakes trying to fill in the gap, be a man, walk up to the mother of your children, ask for forgiveness.
Accept that its all water under the bridge and concentrate on the children, live her new life alone, you can’t take her back.
she grew wings under your frustrations, when you thought she is a nobody, when you thought she is outdated, ugly and old, she is low class with no fashion, wait until someone picks up the container you threw away and make a lamp out of it, then you will come up with all kinds of stories and title, and number 1 title is PROSTITUTE you will be the first man to spread the name of your children’s mother in all sorts of bad image. Men take care. I have only seen men regret after an ugly break up, some even beat up their children in the mix. You will outdo your actions ones it’s done. And women once it’s over its over, don’t allow him to come for sex, NOO.
Ugandan businesswoman and mother of five Zari echoed Akothee sentiments.
Couldn’t have said it any better ,’ she commented on Akothee’s post.
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nwangui I love you madam boss, you are an inspiration to us… I am going through this alone, it’s been 3years now.
nelly.okello Oooh this bit of being called a prostitute touched me deeply this was the name my baby daddy used to call me infront of my son till my son had to ask his teacher its meaning when the teachers called me and asked me I was ashamed and that’s when I said let the marriage be my son was hurting even more in the toxic relationship more than me thanks madam boss
yassydul Seems u talking to me,, after 8 years, ntaiweka wapi sura yangu kwenye uso was dunia…
molly_mukoya I got so emotional at some point, I should tag someone who told me he can’t send money to baby mama ati atakula na another man.
ephydapez Volume please madam boss, that’s exactly what happened to me… I was thrown out with my 2 kid’s looking old and Lubbish. Trust me the guy is wondering how am making it in life.
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warigia_matheri This is so true. Let God win in all. It can be all painful and depressing
i.am.mel.vin I see other children having what they want,their mum’s buying them what they what,I struggle and hustle for my baby, the little I get at the end of the day, I can’t full fill his dream, it pains me a lot so much at times I ask my self what is my need for if I feel pain not full filling his dream.